New parents and responsibilities of parenthood

Admit it! You want something you don't have. Just showing love for kids and being a parent is a whole lot different thing. Many people as a parent fail in upbringing their children, because they don’t know how to deal with their tiny humans. Becoming a parent for the first time is very much challenging. Giving birth to a child is easier than their nurturing. Only good parents can develop a good child, in this case background counts a lot.

There are some issues that a mother faces post-birth. For that matter, physical and mental health checkups are mandatory. Although it is said that a baby starts learning while in mother’s womb, yet first three years of a child after birth are very crucial in developing habits of a great human being. Only stress-free and happy parents who don’t dwell in the past can raise happy children, as children are known to forget past exceptionally soon. So, with utmost care, love, tolerance parents can grow their children in an ideal human being that this world needs.

If we talk about Asian countries like Pakistan and its neighborhoods, there’s joint family system. And in a joint family system one big advantage a new mother has that a child is looked after by dada, dadi (grandparents), and other elderly members of the family. This gives a significant sigh of relief and help to a mother. And it’s been observed that children who have wide interaction with grandparents especially dadi (grandma) become confident individuals.

On the other hand, mother’s role will remain at its place. Teaching or correcting a child must be done with love. Approach shouldn’t be negative and blaming is also wrong. Don’t scold them in front of anyone. Train them in person and in your room when nobody’s around. There are some properties which you don’t need to inculcate in your child, they’ll just transfer. Therefore, you have to be fair in every aspect of your life because your child may learn them by observing.